Why do I feel mad at her?

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thread starter ThunderHail Jul 01 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Backround Information Okay so I have this best friend, Anna. We been friends since last April. During the summer, we became friends with our friend's sister's friend, Amanda. We became really close friends. We even decided to give us a group name, Triple A (lol). Anyways, during last summer we decided to go hiking and hang out. That was for like the first month of our summer vacation. After, I had a little drama and became depressed with myself. I decided, so I wouldn't cause any more drama as I'm a freaken Drama queen, to not have communication with any of my friends from school until school started. Once school started, Anna burst in tears because of what I did. Around 4-5 months ago, Anna met this one guy who she fell in love with. Vanessa (one of my other friends) and I obviously assumed it was lust. I mean, the first day she met the guy, they began to date. The guy isn't one of the guys I would consider to be cool. He fell into my stereotype of "nerd". He just seemed like one of those guys who sit in their house playing video games and just go to school just cause they have to, not because they want to socialize. Recently As days past, I didn't have the feeling that me and Anna are best friends anymore. She didn't really have time with me anymore. It was always hanging out with people she hardly knew and her boyfriend. That annoyed me. I told Amanda about it. I felt like she got replaced with this girl I met in my Chemistry class. Of course, Amanda didn't tell her or anyone for that matter. So today Anna logs on MSN and does a 3-way conversation of me, her and Amanda. She said she had something important to tell us. But she didn't feel comfortable to say it in front of me because I'm a guy. That point, I didn't want to respond anymore. I lost a big interest on what she wanted to tell us. Anna said she will do a 1-1 conversation with her and Amanda to tell her the news. But they kept typing in our 3-way conversation. I stayed in the background just reading what she had to say. Apparently, she didn't know she was typing on the 3-way conversation instead. She said she gave her bf a HJ. She told the story and stuff >_>. Right after she was done, she goes "Oh crap! Andy is still here!" I knew that she was lying. I knew her well enough that she was lying. She wasn't the greatest liar ever. I then gave my opinion and said "That's just gross. Underage sex or sexual activities is just wrong." She then said "Uhm, I'm only 11 months away till I'm 18. It's only 11 months. What would make a difference? When I turn 18 will magical dust be sprinkled on me and a voice will say to me "you are now able to participate in sexual activities?"" I responded "Uh so? 11 months is still alot. Almost a year. It's underage and theres no loophole around it. You're just like those kids in school. "It's just 1 year away till I can drive, so why not drive now? Not like it will make a difference!" "It's just 1 year away till I can buy cigars, so why not now? Not like it wil

twist Jul 01 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

oh wow. that sounds like.. incredibly girly drama >< i personally hate that... good job sticking to your beliefs, though.. but, i think she's iffed because you disagreed with her, and if you're right (sounds like you are) about her lying, then she was just trying to show off and make you jealous (maybe subconsciously, and not saying that she likes you, it's a weird girl thing) i'm really sorry, though.... but... two questions... why is she one of your best friends? and.. because, people sometimes change.. does she still have the qualities that you liked when you met her... now? and you totally have base to be mad at her... what she did is kind of... well... you know ><

Umomafan 07/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

why? because your a puss thats why

ZenReaper 07/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ugh, Drama...

Yos5 07/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Because she is a woman.

malapo Jul 01 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

said: "He fell into my stereotype of "nerd". He just seemed like one of those guys who sit in their house playing video games and just go to school just cause they have to, not because they want to socialize. " hah sounds like me. and having sex at 18 isnt a good thing either. you should wait until you're married (abstinence)

ThunderHail 07/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

SatanWazHere said: "cool story that I didnt read bro" Thanks >___>

felilia 07/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Oh, I'm in the triple k with my two friends, Kim and Kim. Yes, that makes us the KimKimKim.

XshinboX 07/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

What's your gender?

ltachifire 07/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

ThunderHail said: " Backround Information The guy isn't one of the guys I would consider to be cool. He fell into my stereotype of "nerd". He just seemed like one of those guys who sit in their house playing video games and just go to school just cause they have to, not because they want to socialize. " Because you're really gangsta typing all this out on basilmarket. Btw no one wants 2 go to school. If they wanted to socialize they go to partys.

ThunderHail 07/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

felilia said: "Oh, I'm in the triple k with my two friends, Kim and Kim. Yes, that makes us the KimKimKim." I lol'd

Umomafan 07/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

felilia said: "Oh, I'm in the triple k with my two friends, Kim and Kim. Yes, that makes us the KimKimKim." racist being in the KKK

TRUTH 07/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

sounds like you've got a high amount of DRAMA QUEEN. I suggest taking testosterone pills immediately - also your opinion was just downright stupid. The girl can do whatever she wants and you were being all cocky to her about it. some friend YOU are.

SatanWazHere 07/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

QueQueQue?

ThunderHail 07/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

ltachifire said: " Because you're really gangsta typing all this out on basilmarket. Btw no one wants 2 go to school. If they wanted to socialize they go to partys." ye dood i'm gangster yo. No. I at least try to put effort on how I look. And by socialize I mean all they really do is just want to go home. Not even talk to people around or make friends. Not even participate in school activities.