Love, and Like <3

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thread starter iSnipeYour Jun 23 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Hello basil... I'm looking for your advice, i'll need answers from both genders. So, here's my case, please please please answer with care and sincerity. <3 2 days left of school. ( grade 8 btw, so highschool is right around the corner.) TOMORROW is graduation. I've got my outfit planned and everything, all ready. So thing is, I sorta like this girl that I've liked for about 4years, just on and off. :/ So today in our last period we got to just chill outside, so this girl i like is sitting againest the wall. My friend, i sitting beside her, and I'm sitting beside my friend and there's alot more peopel around us (crowd, they were standing.) This girl I like is in the other class, there's 3 classes. (8a, 8b, 8c.) So her class had to leave earlier than us. So here I found out that my friend is friends with the girl. When the teacher calls from her class to come, my friend says "aww, u have to go" and she hugs him. Now I'm not jelous of this, she's hugged me before at the end of grade 6, and 7, etc. But I don't really "hang-out" with her. The advice/tips I need from you guys TODAy is how do I be friends with her, woithout looking like a wierdo? We're going to the same highschool so it's all good there. So i need to know how to be close friends with her, not girlfriend/boyfriend. tomorrow's grad and there's also a dance after the grad ceremony so there could be a good scene there. ughh...i feel really down atm because she's just so beuatiful and not one of those spoiled girls. She's also smart like me which is something that i look for in a girl. Basil...i now call apon you guys for your help. I've felt this way before in earlier years, but this time, I wanna stand up and do something about it. i wanna be friends with her, and show her the man I am. So please basil I need some useful ideas TODAy or it's too late. Thanks for everything in advance, and pls pls pls serious comments only. <3 ~Baraa

Doomsday777 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Underage kids usually don't love. They like.

iSnipeYour 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

uhm how is that helpful, doomsday? :P

x3Genesis 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Say you have a lvl 139 i/l in mardia and you wanna play ms with and you'll leech her for free, haha, jk but.. ask if she wants to get something to eat and don't be looking at her non-stop, trust me, it helps.

iSnipeYour 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

mk, dont stare. :P and ask her to a lunch/dinner?

skazo 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

iSnipeYour said: "uhm how is that helpful, doomsday? :P" It's not. Ignore him. He's bitter.

TwoChoices 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Hmm.. well hang out with your friend and your friend might hang out with her and then BAM?

iSnipeYour 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

wait, "use" my friend? that's not right

Stylite 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

sensible me: Dont do it the realationship wont last emotional me: GO FOR IT DUDE YOU CAN DO IT :D

Maske 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It's probably infatuation. To be honest, at your age you won't find love. The strongest feeling you'll get is infatuation, which is basically love but not love. It's like love at first sight; kind of yeah. But sir, if you really care for this woman, I suggest you make your move. High school can split people up pretty damn fast, so you should get her attention before she's gone. Do something! DO SOMETHING MAN.

iSnipeYour 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

^^ thnx stylite, :P uhm I need tips on HOW to "do it" as you say. it's not that easy cause she hangs out with a group of like 6 girls. :P

DualWolf 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Say "Dance with me" at the dance. Casually, but with a passion.

iDakota 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

A hug is a hug, it's not like a kiss. You're friend is probably really close with her. If you like her a lot go tell her. If you just wanna be friends be yourself. I know it sounds cheeeeeeeeesey, but it actually works unless you're like some doofus.

cereal1 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Ask your friend to introduce you to her, ask what they have in common, etc.

Fizeh 06/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, you should try asking, and if you're too shy, make her like you. Happened to me. :D