I sort of screwed up.

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thread starter iiDork May 07 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Yeah. I had a friend, who I thought I liked, but I ended up jumping to conclusions too fast. I haven't talked to him in almost six months, and I feel guilty. I always used to think that I was annoying and that I bothered him, but I didn't (my friend told me this, she found out somehow). I got really happy after discovering that, since previously, I apologized (through e-mail) and he said that we could start talking again, even though it would be awkward. I know that I can talk to him, but I just lose control when I get near him. I start stressing, my knees get weak and I just walk away. I'm a coward, I know. I plan on talking to him next week, somehow. Do you guys know any way that I could talk to him without making the situation really awkward? Like, what to say? Ex. Hi, since we haven't talked in a while, just to be able to talk to eachother again, do you think we could go eat at lunch together..? (That wouldn't be awkward, since he was my friend for about three years previously)

Bodysnatchers 05/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

ogm r u gey

iiDork 05/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Yes. I am gay.

Sympathy May 07 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Lunch is definitely a good idea, just talk about all that's gone on in both of your lives over some food. Otherwise, meeting at a mall or park, somewhere else where you can just sort of sit around and talk, would be a good idea. @Reid: ogm r u gey

PlasticSurgery 05/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

"will u be my maple bf"

MySecretLife 05/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I know exactly how you feel. Except... It's a bit different. Yes, I'm obnoxious, and yes, I thought, or rather think I like them. LETS BE FIENDS

ThePepsi 05/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

So you've went through puberty, eh? It stinks. I know. We've all been through it.

patsaccount 05/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Awkward.... I don't know much, but straight guys get pretty upset when a gay guy tries to get fresh with them.... Can't tell you much other than try to apologize.

screech1941 05/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Is he gay too? If he's not, he probably feels awkward atm. Stating the obvious, i know.

winddrake 05/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I found out that in a lot of tough moments, you don't need to come up with speeches beforehand to try to patch things up. Maybe you should just start up a conversation somehow and let your feelings do the rest.

iiDork May 07 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

patsaccount said: "Awkward.... I don't know much, but straight guys get pretty upset when a gay guy tries to get fresh with them.... Can't tell you much other than try to apologize." I did apologize, and he accepted my apologies. I said that he was okay for us to start talking again, even though it would be awkward. I don't think that he thinks that this ruined our friendship. @screech ; no, he's not gay.

k99909 05/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

That's akwaaaarrdd...

iiDork May 07 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Yeah, I know. I'm trying to fix it though. e:dead thread

Bodysnatchers 05/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Sympathy said: "Lunch is definitely a good idea, just talk about all that's gone on in both of your lives over some food. Otherwise, meeting at a mall or park, somewhere else where you can just sort of sit around and talk, would be a good idea. @Reid: ogm r u gey" That's in between me and the internet.

sxswitch 05/07/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

"eat lunch together" NO NO NO say, wanna go hang out or something? thats how its done. =D