Questions to the girls

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thread starter BHazel May 01 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

PLEASE answer this honestly. Would you feel okay if your boyfriend had a girl as a best friend? You could remain anonymous but I just need some opinions (in the poll).

OldOnesReturn 05/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It is ALL okay. I mean you don't love your best friend in a way you love your girlfriend right? If your girlfriend feels that way, you have to talk about this situation.

ilovealyssa 05/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, if my girlfriend has a boy as a best friend, i'd be ok with that because relationships need trust, and if you can't trust your girl, then that's going to make things hell

Translucent 05/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

yeah, of course. it's all about trust, isn't it?

UpStairsOutside 05/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It doesn't bother me if my girlfriend has a best friend that's a boy.

LOLOMGBBQ 05/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

It'd be okay. My best friend is gay ;]

candyisyummy May 01 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well from my experience I thought it was okay. A situation like this happened to me, but nothing bad really happened. But that was probably because my boyfriend's "best friend" was my best friend also. xD So we pretty much got along. However if I didn't knew that girl that much, I would be more in the "Not Sure" side, possibly in the "it's not okay" side. As long as he's not cheating I'm fine with it.

divine619 May 01 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

No I wouldn't, but his best friend is guy so I'm not worried haha. Edit: I trust him though. I just wouldn't trust the girl trying to bust a move.

Lanique 05/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

honestly I wouldn't really feel good about that but I don't do relationships anyways.

citylifex511 05/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Only if the guy was gay xD

Alrika 05/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

All my friends are guys. They'd be more uncomfortable because I'd be hanging out with guys.

whuk 05/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

My girlfriend has a best friend thats gay, so thats pretty good with me. But if he was straight I'd still be Ok with it, since I know she wouldn't do anything like that.

BHazel May 01 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

OldOnesReturn said: "It is ALL okay. I mean you don't love your best friend in a way you love your girlfriend right? If your girlfriend feels that way, you have to talk about this situation." I really would like to talk to her. Huge problem: She opens up to her best friend. Do I care? Yes. She never opens up to me. Should I be worried? By opening up I mean she talks to him about how she feels etc.

tamias 05/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Seeing said person, I think I'd be alright with it. I think I would usually not be alright with it though, if it was BFFs, like, good friends that are girls are k.

divine619 05/01/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Lanique said: "honestly I wouldn't really feel good about that but I don't do relationships anyways." What about me bby we have something special <3