My ex-GF betrayed me.

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thread starter poepienee Apr 21 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Sooo, I had a girlfriend for like 1 and a half month, not long I know. Anyway we knew eachother like 4 months or something and then we started seeing eachother. After we broke up cos ''she wanted to be alone'' I often asked the real reason was cos I knew that reason was too stupid for her. After a long time she finally admitted she barely had feelings for me and I was an excuse to break up with her BF before me. That hurt me so dam much. We really could go along well and I felt so betrayed, I can't explain. This happened all like a month and a half ago but I still feel the pain sometimes. When I remember when she hugged me, kissed me and all that other stuff, I really, really miss those days. I can't believe that everytime she said: 'I love you', she actually lied right into my face. When I think of that I'm getting furious and there's nothing I can do about it. She now has another BF and she told me when they were together cos I asked her to tell me. I said: 'Have fun together, hope you mean it wth him'. She replied with: 'Hell yeah!' At that moment, I could smack the crap out of anyone who annoyed me by just a bit. The way she said that shows like she doesn't give a **** about what I think or feel -.- I'm like, still sad about this and she's seeing someone else already, I hate that. Sometimes I hope I see her BF on a party or something. If he then does anything wrong, I'll fight. But it seems like he has no life, he's like never out. In a couple of weeks there's party of my school. She's in my school and I really hope that her BF will come too. It's not his fault but I wanna get rid of my aggression and that's kinda the only way I could hurt her too. I really wanted to share it with someone and I hope the most people will kinda help me with Idk what. Thx if you read this ~ EDIT: she wasn't like this when we were together or before that. She was the most awesome girl I had ever met. And I'm close to 17, 3 months away. EDIT 2: She obviously betrayed me when she like like a month and a half to me, right in my face. How would you feel?

520will 04/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

umm yeah there're lots girls ahead of u Just get over her and get a new one.........its a long way to get the right one but hope u can get urs sooner than I assume haha I hug u lol I am straight tho

bis 04/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Relax,my ex-GF said to a friend of her,that she was with me,just becuz' there wasn't anyone else to stay with her =/

Recreational 04/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I notice nobody has made any mention of the person she left to be with poepienee. Were you aware that she was in a relationship already? Did it occur to you, that if she was able to break off her relationship so quickly with that person, that she had the potential to repeat this move? The first person would appear to be in a similar situation to you. Possibly even worse, if he found out she left him /after/ getting involved with another person. Anyhow, the solution to these problems is never through violence. Venting your rage may help for a short time, but the regret you will feel later will result in you feeling even worse than you are now. An example - there are plenty of girls out there, a lot of them are not *****, and attacking someone would probably be quite a turn off. What kind of person would want to be in a relationship with one so easily susceptible to rage and impulse? Time is a near certain cure for this issue. Give it time, keep your distance from those involved, and when you have a clear head you can reflect and think about how fortunate you are that you have rid yourself of that particular burden.

tarheel91 04/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Kerpail said: "I hate when people say "I love you" when they've been together for like 3 days. I've never said that to any of the girls i've been with." Yeah, I've said it to one, but I felt something different than I felt for any other girl I've been with. The word "love" is used much too lightly in my opinion.

MySecretLife 04/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I laughed.

oxwizzaxo 04/21/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Just beat her up...

shigofumiJJ 04/23/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

dont let ur feeling overcome you, just forget it...and learn from mistakes..im just giving you advice base on experience