How long before a kiss?

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thread starter babyspyro321 Apr 19 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well I'm most likely going to get a whole bunch of different opinions on this, and mean comments , but I would like to know because it relates to my situation a lot so, I've been going out with my GF for a little while (15 weeks or so:P), but since it's her first time dating, and mine too and yada yada we haven't kissed yet(this is where I expect a lot of random flames or something like that matter, so D:>) But my main question is, How long should you date before "going for da first kill" I just like calling it that (kiss). Those who have never dated or anything, what would you think if you did date? For those too lazy to read(even though it's not long at all) How long should you date before kissing? And also, I'm probably going to get bombed by mean comments so l'm bracing myself for impact D:>

FFanarchist 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Make the move. Just when you're leaving, when you do the usual hugging procedure, come apart slightly but still hold on to her so that your heads are apart but you're still holding on to each other. Look her in the eyes then go for it. That's my expertise advice, haha.

xWindiaRocks 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Wow, I find it kinda ironic that this thread is here. Last night my girlfriend came over, it was the first time we really spent any time together (We live one and a half hours apart) and when she left, we kissed. So personally, I would say: Go for it.

lettucing 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

imppy725 said: " Movies are horrible for dates, no communication whatsoever. Just my 2 cents." i totally agree. anyways... i don't like kissing. :< it's yucky.

SourDonut 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Don't do it if you don't feel ready or comfortable. Make sure she's ready too. I don't know, it just... comes o-o

Auspicious 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Well, I was with my boyfriend for about 4 weeks when we had our first kiss.

Kerpail 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

That's a really long time...I usually kiss in the first week or so.

HolyMythos 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

First date. Always.

FIipBoi Apr 19 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

imppy725 said: " Movies are horrible for dates, no communication whatsoever. Just my 2 cents." I totally disagree. Me and my girlfriend go to the movies all of the time. We never actually watch the movie =). OT: I'd agree with the go to the movies thing, just make sure it's something you two don't really wanna watch. I kissed my girlfriend on our first date, but it wasn't anything really big. It was like a short make-out thing because I was just dropping her off at home. HolyMythos said: " First date. Always. " I totally agree =).

imzack1 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I will kiss my BF/friends with benefits within 1-4days.

Boondock5 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

15 weeks? You have to right of way, haha.

BBD 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

dont kiss O_o take her to bed and show what u r really made out of

aryama5 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Until both of you feel that you have officially found true love.

Sympathy 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

If you're taking it seriously, I don't think it's ever too soon for a kiss. As in, first date is totally acceptable. Waiting to kiss just seems a bit odd to me.

XshinboX 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

After marriage, lolol. At the end of the first date or when you feel comfortable.

mechaultra19 04/19/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I say wait till she's ready