The Overbearing Nice People

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thread starter Samomo Apr 12 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I don't know whether it's envious of me or not, but I really dislike overly nice people. An act of small kidness sure. But going out of your way to be nice/a huge act of niceness disgusts me. It's like a huge show to me. Anyone on the same page here?

COChaos 04/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

sometimes, tho I applaud them for giving it all their effort

fungus 04/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Treat others the way you want to be treated?

taotapp Apr 12 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I know exactly what you mean. They act like life is a giant play or something, and they come off as corny and fake. e-e' Granted, a lot of them don't know that they're overdoing it, and actually find joy in helping others. Good for them, I guess.

dorkksterr 04/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I guess.. sorta? If they act too nice, it makes me think that I should act really nice back at them. It just feels a bit out of place.

xoxCarmen 04/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

As in the woman that found the half a million dollar cheque and tried to return it to the owner?

Samomo 04/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

taotapp said: "I know exactly what you mean. They act like life is a giant play or something, and they come off as corny and fake. e-e'" Exactly. It seems like this huge drama act in the middle of nowhere. Regardless of intention I still dislike them when they do it because it's just soo.. fake maybe as far as unhuman.

GyldenDaggry 04/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Only the "lover" kind. "Awww hunnybunch I wuv you! <3" "I Wuv u too snugg'ems! <3" "<3" "<3" Ughhh...

Cuteness Apr 12 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

*is like that* EDIT: btw, i don't mean like.....creepily fake. like workers from fancy stores that give this long "hiiiiii~ can i help you~?" and then they give a creepy smile

candyisyummy Apr 12 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I don't think it's bad. :] Well maybe it's because I'm one of those people x___x but I can kind of think relate. I had a friend that was really generous and she gave me a lot of stuff, but I said i couldn't accept it because I'm just nice that way. Like I really felt that she should keep it and use it for her own good, but to her she probably found it offensive that I didn't accept, so yeah I kind of get what you mean by being nice gets annoying. D: imo it's just annoying in certain situations but yeah it's possible

Jinxiy Apr 12 2009 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

I'm super nice, 98% of the time. Maybe if you were less selfish, and more giving, you wouldn't think badly of these people.

ColouredCrayons 04/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Jinxiy said: "I'm super nice, 98% of the time. " Can't wait to see that other 2% ;P

killerkid037 04/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

fungus said: "Treat others the way you want to be treated?" Yeahh, this, exxactly. Nice people are great, but there are those that just go wayyyy over the top, and its just irritating.

Samomo 04/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Jinxiy said: "I'm super nice, 98% of the time. Maybe if you were less selfish, and more giving, you wouldn't think badly of these people." When did I say I was selfish? Or is hating overly nice people a indicator of selfish people? Anyways gee I sure would like to see your 2%.

Cuteness 04/12/09 + PM | QUOTE | PERMALINK | REPORT

Samomo said: " When did I say I was selfish? Or is hating overly nice people a indicator of selfish people? Anyways gee I sure would like to see your 2%." she said she's nice 98% of the time